Amazed and excited

It's been a while since I've written in my blog. But today I have felt compelled to share the joy that is completely overwhelming. I really can't explain it; I'm so not the "overjoyed" type. But...

For those of you who saw my facebook post know what I'm talking about. The Representatives of the people of New York spoke for equality and today marks a huge milestone in my life and the struggles of the ones that came before me.

I think those who know me, NO,  I'm sure those who know me; know I'm not a activist. I live my life under the radar for the most part. I'm out and I'm proud. But that doesn't mean I have to throw it anyone's face. I've said it many times; I'm me, like it or leave it.

I married my partner on September 1, 2008 when, while briefly it was legal in California. Yesterdays vote in the most iconic state in the Union, just reaffirmed to me that my life is normal. We have the same problems, struggles and issues that any other "married" couple have.

I don't tell you how to live your life. I don't tell you what scripture you should abide by. That's all pointless. The decisions I make in my life aren't going to affect you and your belief of the after life. If you truly believe in the scripture then you must be able to point out your own sins that you commit and live in on a daily basis. No one is perfect. So, therefore it's just easier and I think God's way not to judge. I don't judge you. Please offer me the same courtesy.  

You know it's always hard to deal with the rhetoric that comes after decisions like this. Because many people are still opposed. The Catholic Church (like they have room to talk) are opposed. Opposition is not always a bad thing. It's what this country was founded on. Opposition is what fuels the fire. The harder people push, the harder we are going to fight.

If you remember it wasn't too long ago in history that interracial marriage was illegal. Holy hell Jim, I haven't seen the fall of the world because of it. You know why? Because two people love each other and that's what matters. It's not my decision, it's not your decision, it's theirs. I can assure you this decision will not be the fall of the world.

I'm thankful for a loving husband and I'm truly blessed to have a loving and supportive family, who without, neither of us could have made this journey.  Peace and love to all. Hug, truly HUG the ones you love!